Can it work with my husband after a break up?

It takes 2 people to make a marriage work; you can't do it alone. I was in your situation about 10 years ago. I wanted to make it work all by myself. When things started to go my way I realized that he was not what I wanted. I backed up. You should do the same. Don't try to force it simply because you love him; you can always love someone else. Good luck.